You’re finding it hard to communicate with your partner.
You find that you are having more arguments with them.
It’s maybe time to think about meeting with a couple’s therapist. All couples at different parts of their lives struggle to get along and understand one another. We all struggle with growing up and getting older. Our patterns change and we have to learn new ways to communicate with one another.
The Gottman Method
The Gottman Method is a couples counseling method that was created by Drs. John and Julie Gottman.
It looks at your relationship as a home. Each layer of the home is a place for each of your to learn and grow with one another while learning how to better communicate, understand one another, work on conflict resolution in a constructive way, learn to love your relationship again, and build stronger connections.
As a Level 2 Trained Gottman Marital & Couples Therapist, I believe in seeing both of you as my clients. I see my role as a guide through a difficult process of relearning about one another. I do not serve as a mediator for arguments but instead will show you ways that each of your are not communicating. I will provide you with guidance on how to reconnect and even build stronger bonds.
You can learn more about the Gottman Method here: The Gottman Institute